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Helping Your Child Manage Back To School Anxiety

August 19, 2014

Helping Your Child Manage Back To School Anxiety - Tips for Parents & Caregivers

Anxiety is a normal part of life, and anxious feelings are very common during times when there is a change or shift in routine. Back to school anxiety is particularly common among children and teens.

If you have an anxious child, he or she may complain of physical symptoms, including:

  • Headaches
  • Stomach pains
  • Muscle tension
  • Your child may become increasingly irritable or clingy, or may cry and express feelings of distress prior to the first day of school.
  • Children and youth may express worries related to:
  • Uncertainty about their new teacher
  • Change in routine
  • Appearance
  • Academic performance
  • Taking the bus
  • Separation from parental attachments
  • Worries about peers or being liked

Helping Your Child Develop Strategies for Managing Anxiety

As parents or caregivers, there are certain strategies you can use to assist your child with back to school anxiety:

  • One week before school starts, start your child on a back to school routine to include bed time and waking up at regular times. It is helpful for everyone in the family to work on adjusting to a new time schedule.
  • Give your child an alarm clock to help them take responsibility for getting up on time and to practice getting into a routine.
  • Encourage your child to assist with making lunches/healthy snacks (anxious children often forget to eat).Visit the school ahead of time and find classroom(s), library, counsellors office, etc. to build familiarity.
  • For young children taking the bus for the first time: map out the bus route with them ahead of time and visit the bus stop.

Encourage Coping and Independence

  • Avoid giving excessive reassurance: instead, assist your child in problem solving and planning (e.g., make a list of school supplies and plan a shopping trip, create a schedule).
  • Let your child know it is normal to have concerns, but encourage coping and independence (versus rescuing).
  • Assist your child with coping statements: When children or youth express anxious thoughts, encourage them to think of ways they can cope and plan ahead.
  • The night before school, pack up the school bag ahead of time, including snacks.
  • For anxious children, a reassuring note in their lunch or object that reminds them of home may also be helpful. In some circumstances, it may be helpful to connect your child with the school counsellor.

Help Your Child Learn How to Relax

  • It is also helpful for anxious children to learn breathing and relaxation strategies. Help them find fun ways to relax and encourage them to use these tools when they are feeling anxious.

Most importantly, monitor your own reactions and behavior.

  • It is very distressing for parents to see their child in discomfort, and sometimes there is a natural inclination to reassure excessively or protect the child from their fears (i.e. by allowing the child to stay home).
  • Parents may unintentionally give children the message that they do not have the resources to cope on their own, which may actually reinforce the anxiety.

Develop a Routine

  • Developing a routine, having a schedule, creating familiarity, practicing coping statements, and teaching relaxation strategies are all effective ways in assisting your child with back to school fears.

This article is by Tamara Dalrymple, M.A., PsyD (Candidate), a Registered Clinical Counsellor & Mental Health Specialist.

Managing Seasonal Depression

October 17, 2014

Depression with a Seasonal Pattern (formerly known as Seasonal Affective Disorder or SAD) is a form of depression that presents at certain times of year and accounts for roughly 10% of all depression cases. The weather and change in seasons can have an emotional and/or physical impact on everyone, but when symptoms start to interfere significantly with mood and daily functioning, it may be worth it to investigate further.


For most people with a Seasonal Pattern of Depression, the onset begins in the fall and tends to get progressively worse throughout winter as the days become shorter and there is less daylight. There is also a small portion of the population who experience decreased mood in the Spring and Summer months. Researchers have found that individuals in more northern cities are more likely to experience seasonal depression than those who live closer to the equator.


What Are Some of the Symptoms?

Many individuals with a seasonal form of depression will describe feeling tired all the time and may crave carbohydrates or report weight gain. Appetite disturbance is also a common symptom, with cravings for starchy or sugary foods. Sleep disturbance in the form of over-sleeping is also reported frequently, along with feelings of hopelessness or guilt. Along with decreased mood, it may also be difficult for individuals to enjoy or engage in daily activities.


What Should I do? Tips for Managing Seasonal Depression

  • If you think that you may be experiencing a seasonal form of depression, it may be helpful to talk to your doctor first, in order to rule out any other medical issues or associated conditions. (For example, thyroid problems can often present as symptoms of depression).
  • Try to spend some time outdoors each day in natural light and try to maximize sun exposure when indoors. (For example, keep curtains open, move furniture close to windows, move your desk close to the window or into the sunlight; trim branches or hedges that may block light from getting in to the house).
  • Aim to increase physical activity or weight training into your weekly schedule to assist in the increase of healthy chemicals in your brain, along with decreased stress and increased energy. Finding a way to exercise outside a few times a week is also ideal.
  • Try to incorporate healthy servings of fruit, vegetables, and lean protein into your diet to mitigate the carbohydrate and sugar cravings (that can also deplete energy). Eggs are also high in natural 5-HTP (which works in the brain and central nervous system to increase the production of serotonin (a chemical often associated with symptoms of depression and anxiety).
  • Purchase a full spectrum light (otherwise known as light therapy, light box therapy, or phototherapy). Sixty to eighty percent of people with seasonal depression report significant improvement with light therapy for up to thirty minutes per day. Full spectrum light bulbs will also create a brighter light in the home during the winter and can be purchased at most hardware stores.
  • Clinical Counsellors can also assist in the assessment and treatment of all forms of depression. In particular, cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) can assist individuals in acquiring tools for coping with negative and unhelpful thoughts and actions that often accompany depression.

Medications may also be a helpful adjunct for many individuals in treating many forms of depression. Talk to your doctor to find out if medications may be suitable for you.

Herbal remedies may also be helpful but it is important to remember that even herbal remedies or vitamins may also have side effects (especially in combination with other medications). So it is always important to consult with your doctor, naturopath or health care provider when taking any form of medication or herbal remedy.


This article is by Tamara Dalrymple, M.A., PsyD (Candidate), a Registered Clinical Counsellor & Mental Health Specialist.

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Sleep as a Cornerstone to Optimal Mental Health

January 23, 2017

Sleep plays a vital role in healthy brain function and emotional well-being. Good quality sleep can also serve as a protective factor towards healthy minds, physiological health, quality of life and even safety. Recent studies have determined that sleep is intricately linked with many aspects of mental health including quality of social relationships, prevalence of depression, and risk taking behavior. 


 Symptoms of psychological distress among men and women in the general population have been associated with ongoing sleep deprivation of less than six hours per night. High stress occupations or alternating shift work are commonly associated with sleep problems. Sleep disorders are connected to a myriad of systemic conditions including hypertension, chronic pain, headaches, obesity, stroke, and diabetes. Poor sleep quality is also associated with increased accidents and poor occupational or academic performance.


Sleep also plays a critical role in the growth and development of children and adolescents. Insufficient sleep duration and poor quality sleep can have a direct impact on the psychological and physical health of youth. In adolescents, unhealthy sleep practices have been correlated with poor academic performance, low levels of emotional well-being, and symptoms of depression. Excessive electronic media use at night has also been identified as a risk factor for both sleep disturbance and depression in adolescents.


During the sleep cycle, our bodies work to support healthy brain function and maintain physical health. While we sleep, the brain prepares for the next day and forms new pathways to help us learn and retain information. Studies have shown that sleep deficiency alters activity in some parts of the brain that assist in decision making, problem solving, emotional regulation and coping. 


 Getting enough sleep at the right time helps us function well throughout the day. Deep sleep triggers the body to release hormones that assist in boosting muscle mass, repairing tissue, and forming new cells. Our immune systems rely on sleep to stay healthy and defend against infection.


Amazingly, some people may not realize that they are sleep deficient as they become used to a decreased level of functioning which begins to feel normal. The amount of sleep we need each day will change over the course of our lives.  According to the U.S. National Institute of Health, the following guide is generally recommended:

  • Preschool-aged children:   11–12 hours a day
  • School-aged children:        10-11 hours a day
  • Adolescents:                         9–10 hours a day
  • Adults & Elderly:                  7–8 hours a day

Tips for Getting a Good Night Sleep

  • Incorporate regular exercise into your weekly schedule (at least 3-4 times per week) but not within a few hours of bed time.
  • Minimize the use of electronic media at least one to two hours before bed time.
  • Minimize exposure to bright light one hour before bed time. Regularly expose yourself to natural morning light or very bright (full spectrum) artificial light during morning hours to help regulate circadian rhythms.
  • Try not to work or do homework in bed so that it does not become a conditioned stimulus for work, anxiety, lying awake, etc.
  • Use Progressive Relaxation Techniques before bed time to activate the parasympathetic nervous system and induce muscle relaxation. Calm breathing can also be helpful.
  • Work at defining a wind-down routine that eliminates highly stimulating activity before bed time (Dim the lights, listen to relaxing sounds, have an Epsom salt bath, relax your muscles)
  • Evaluate your bedroom and sleep space to establish the conditions you need for sleep. Consider black-out shades, eye shades, “white-noise” machines or humidifiers. Your room should not be too hot and your pillow and mattress should be comfortable.
  • If you have trouble sleeping, avoid napping, particularly in the afternoon.
  • Monitor what you eat and drink. Try to avoid cigarettes or caffeine in the evening. Alcohol can also disrupt sleep. Eating big or spicy meals close to bed time can also cause discomfort that can affect sleep.
  • If you can’t sleep, go in to another room and do something relaxing  (avoiding electronics) until you feel tired.

If you have difficulty sleeping on a daily basis it may be helpful to talk to a doctor and also record your sleep pattern in a sleep diary to keep track of strategies and progress.


Article by: Tamara Dalrymple, M.A., PsyD (Candidate).  Registered Clinical Counsellor & Mental Health Specialist, Victoria, B.C.

Web Resources:

Here to Help, Getting a Good Night Sleep http://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/wellness-module/wellness-module-6-getting-a-good-nights-sleep

Tips for Sleep Hygiene ,Anxiety BC www.anxietybc.com/sites/default/files/SleepHygiene.pdf

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/health-topics/topics/sdd/why

The National Sleep Foundation. https://sleepfoundation.org/


References:

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The role of activity in early stages of recovery from depression

September 20, 2017

During an episode of depression, most people tend to reduce or discontinue activities or social connections that usually contribute to keeping their mood healthy and balanced.  Physiologically, the frontal lobe of the brain is also not activated in the way that it normally would be and as a result, individuals often become more vulnerable to unhelpful thinking patterns or self-defeating thoughts.


A depressed mood can lead to inactivity but inactivity also contributes to depression.  Add in a vulnerability to increased negative thought patterns and this can create a vicious cycle and in many cases, a downward spiral.  Setting goals to increase activity level is a powerful first step in managing depression.


The key is to start generating some sort of activity patterns again, even if motivation is low.  In the early stages of recovery, it is common to not "feel like" doing much or receive much enjoyment from engaging in activity.  Eventually, as individuals continue to increase activity level and learn tools to manage unhelpful thought patterns, the ability to enjoy activities returns gradually, often along with some form of motivation.  


In the early stages of resuming activity, it is important to set small goals and upon achieving them, acknowledge these successes.  In the depressive mindset it is common to minimize achievements or expect much more in terms of accomplishment, often resulting in feelings of failure.  But completing small activity goals is a very important first step in the recovery process.  Giving oneself permission to set manageable goals is also an important part of this.  Manageable goals are defined differently depending on the individual.  For some people, a manageable goal may entail opening one piece of mail, a five minute walk, or phoning one friend.


In terms of re-activating a healthy lifestyle, setting small goals related to exercise, self care, social involvement and day-to-day tasks is a powerful part of the process.  And it takes time....


Article by: Tamara Dalrymple, M.A., PsyD (Candidate). Registered Clinical Counsellor & Mental Health Specialist, Victoria, B.C.


Resources:

  • Patterson, Randy. The Changeways Clinic Core Program: Practical Strategies for Personal Change.
  • Provincial Health Services Authority. Self Care Depression Program.